Cultivate radical approval of every piece of yourself.
Open and reveal your entire heart.
Allow yourself to be fiercely held in the sanctity of a Sacred Union relationship.
Choose soul-deep love and choose to let yourself be deeply loved.
It has to NOTHING do with your worthiness (you’re already SO f*cking worthy of epic love, babe) and EVERYTHING to do with your ability to stretch your intimacy edges and crack your heart ALL the way open.
You’re devoted to following your soul’s purpose…
Following a vision so deep and expansive that others get full-body chills when you talk about it…
A life so RICH that no vision board could ever truly capture in all of its beauty and magic…
AND YOU’RE READY FOR SOULMATE LOVE.
YOU’RE READY FOR YOUR PARTNER TO SEE, HOLD, EXPERIENCE, AND LOVE ALL OF YOU.
The f*cking masterpiece that is the life you’re creating – you want a co-creator.
Someone to join hands with inside of a true Sacred Union partnership – one that will be the healthiest, sexiest, strongest, most MAGICAL relationship of your entire life.
You’ve either just left a relationship that wasn’t right for you or you’ve been single for years.
Either way, you’re ready to call in the one…
Because now, you’re ready for the real thing. Wild love. Eternal love. Unshakeable love…
But you’ve been frustrated with the dating market as of late, and you don’t want to f*ck around with a bunch of one-night stands – you desire a rich, epic, deep love.
Even though you know there’s something missing, you’re still convinced you have to be fully happy and “healed” on your own before you can meet your person. After all, how can you balance being the POWERFUL AF business woman you currently are with the softness and vulnerability of a deep relationship?
You’ve been together for some time, but you’re in a period of stagnancy. You’re ready to fall in love all over again, to reignite the spark that magnetized you two together in the first place, to rise to the next level of your life together…
Where you’ll feel WILDLY turned on while also fully seen, met, and held in ALL parts of you.
But you don’t know how to initiate the growth that’s required to get to the next big life level with your partner, so you avoid the tough conversations that make your heart race too quickly.
That triggers your anxious or avoidant attachment tendencies.
That makes your palms sweat.
Those conversations might feel scary, yes.
BABE, YOUR ANSWER IS RIGHT THERE: YOU DON’T HAVE TO CHOOSE. YOU GET TO BE BOTH/AND. RADIANT IN YOUR POWER AND IRRESISTIBLE IN YOUR OPEN VULNERABILITY.
BUT I PROMISE YOU THAT ONCE YOU BEGIN TO DEVELOP AND STRENGTHEN YOUR INTIMACY MUSCLE, UNBURDENING YOUR SOUL WITH YOUR PERSON WILL CREATE THE MAGIC YOU’RE DREAMING OF.
I know you’re brave enough to invite your partner to rise into union with you, but it’s DEEPLY uncomfortable to feel like you have to lead when it feels like you’re headed straight for the shallows and a shipwreck.
BABE, YOU GET TO HAVE IT ALL.
You get to have unrealistic love.
You get to have unreasonable love.
You get to have the kind of love that sets your soul on fire.
You get to have the kind of love where you’re celibate for years and then you meet your f*cking soulmate on your first date back in the market.
You get to be your fullest self and let your person love all the pieces of you that you yourself have never loved before.
You get to be in your HIGHEST expression in this timeline alongside the love of your life. You get to ACTIVATE your highest self in this timeline alongside the love of your life.
Be stripped down to their purest essence…
And declared WORTHY of radical acceptance.
THIS IS WHAT WILL ALLOW YOU TO BE SEEN, HELD, AND LOVED SO FIERCELY BY YOUR FOREVER PERSON.
Because I’ve been there.
I’ve been through a multi-year chronic illness, long stretches of depression and heartbreak before, but nothing –
And I mean NOTHING,
Compared to the pain of losing my soulmate, knowing that I was the one who let him go.
After the first 5 months of dating the most incredible man I’d ever met – Charlie – I experienced a relapse in chronic illness symptoms.
When I met him, I was healthy and in remission – and I had thought that the whole chronic illness part of my life was over.
All Charlie knew was Healthy Megan. The radiant one. The pretty one. The one who speaks in poetry and laughs in verses. The fully alive one with magic in her eyes.
So when I started to get sick again, I was a sinking ship, and I didn’t want him near the wreckage, because I knew how ugly it could get.
I thought Sick Megan would be too much for him to handle.
Because for years, I told myself that the darker parts of myself – the health issues, depression, weight fluctuations, sensitivity, intensity – were all untouchable.
So I let Charlie go, thinking I was doing him a favor.
In reality, I shattered his heart. And then, after I was well again and reached out, he had seemingly already moved on…and in that moment, he shattered mine.
I never gave him the chance to make the decision to love me – ALL OF ME – for himself.
Until he did. He read my book that was published in the months of our breakup all about my healing journey, and told me that he hadn’t moved on. He wanted to be with ALL of me, even IF and WHEN it got hard. Like, really, really hard.
Charlie is now my husband. We’re dreaming up – and bringing to fruition – the same beautiful life together.
And worse, I know intimately the world-shattering pain from losing that person – just when you found them – because you couldn’t move through your own intimacy sh*t.
This is what I need!
"Megan is an absolute DREAM to work with. I’ve never felt so seen and so accepted before in my life. She offers a perfect blend of brilliant and intuitive business guidance, high-touch emotional and whole person support, and the powerful, juicy invocation of YOUR own innate feminine power. She will call you forward into your truest self and fiercely love every part of you along the way. I just love being held by her, and the women Megan attracts into her space are incredible."
"There is something about her energy that is simply magnetic - undeniable depth, electrifying mystery, contagious aliveness, and confident businesswoman vibe, all rolled into one multidimensional miracle of a mentor. I feel truly seen and supported in my unique quirky non-linear vision. I don't think I have ever had a coach who got the essence of what I am building in my business on such a deep level, and it is precious. Megan has a gift of seeing people deeply and meeting them where they are at - her heart, her brilliant mind and her presence held me through a massive expansion and uplevel chapter in my business and life. I am so deeply grateful."
"...in only 3 months! HUGE quantum leap."
"She empowered and guided us with such grace - I loved the raw and beautiful space she held for us to be so authentic and open. She made such an easy and flowing connection with all of us and was always there to remind us of how powerful we truly are.”
It almost makes you laugh about how anxious and worried you were before – because even if you had met your partner one day earlier, it wouldn’t have worked out. You’ve made SO many breakthroughs with your heart, and you know (even if you’re reading this right now thinking, “Well, f*ck you for saying that, Megan”) that doing the work allowed the stars to align at the right time for you.
In fact, it’s showing up in all aspects of your life, because the love you invested into yourself and your love makes you SO radiant that clients can’t resist working with you time and time again – at higher rates because you accepted that what you do is freaking incredible and deserves to be gorgeously compensated.
YOU FINALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT MEANS TO “CHOOSE” SOMEONE EVERY SINGLE DAY, AND D*MN, DOES IT FEEL GOOD!
You’re no longer avoiding tough conversations, because you know how to make your body feel safe by acknowledging the sweaty palms, the shaking voice, and using that to forge a deeper connection with your partner.
(In fact, you might even look forward to them, because you know the DEPTH that comes afterwards is SO powerful).
By developing those tools through specific practices, you’re able to hold the miraculous love that came your way, instead of feeling like you got hit by a truck and needed to recover.
You’re able to enjoy this divine moment in time, and also say: “Yes, and? More of this magic, please!”
YOU FEEL SO SAFE WHEN YOU NEED TO BE VULNERABLE BUT YOU’RE ALSO WILDLY TURNED ON BY THEIR PRESENCE.
You know that it’s okay to break down in front of your partner. To cry, to be frustrated, to explain that you need some time alone to process whatever you’re going through – OR that you need to be physically held, or in the same room as them to process whatever you’re going through.
Either way, you feel safe to express your needs, because you know that they will treat you with the tenderness you require.
This is what’s waiting for you inside ***NAKED HEART.*** The softness, the expansion, the deep connection, the “*oh sh*t, we gotta get home NOW I’m so turned on* 🔥🔥🔥” feelings.
All of it is what’s possible when you strip your heart of its ego.
When you allow it to be seen, naked in its beauty.
YOU’VE CALLED IN YOUR SOULMATE OR CULTIVATED YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP TO EPIC LOVE/SOUL-ON-FIRE LOVE/SOULMATE STATUS, AND EVERY PART OF YOU FEELS SO INCREDIBLY WORTHY OF THEIR LOVE, PASSION, ACCEPTANCE, AND ADMIRATION.
I’m Megan - Leadership, Business, and Intimacy Mentor for spiritual business owners and rebellious entrepreneurs, the author of "Strange and Unusual Creatures" and the founder of my coaching and mentorship business, Her Alchemy.
I help powerful women with giant desires create the business and the love that they want through high-touch 1:1 mentorship, group coaching programs, and transformational events and workshops.
My expertise is in feminine leadership, transformation, alchemy, online business, energetics, embodiment, and helping women cultivate wildly fulfilling soul-deep relationships.
Before Her Alchemy, I was a freelance writer in the areas of spirituality and sexuality and a Holistic Wellness Coach specializing in breathwork, meditation, and EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique).
I received my training and certification in coaching through IIN in 2018, my training and certification in breathwork facilitation through Revelation Breathwork in 2019, and my training and certification in guided embodiment and somatic work through The Embody Lab in 2021.
“Strange and Unusual Creatures” is my book about the journey I went on to heal from years of chronic illness. It’s a raw, honest, and inspiring account of love, hope, healing, rebirth, and liberation.
In my coaching and mentorship business, I go deep with my clients so that they can rise high - in life, in business, and in love.
This tells me that no matter how much your shadow beliefs want you to play it safe, to say…
“Who am I to deserve epic love when I’m not perfect?”
“Who do I think I am to declare that I want to meet my soulmate?”
“My relationship is okay where it’s at – I’m fine with settling for where we’re at now.”
… you’re open to the idea that you DESERVE a sensual, healing, hilarious, magical love that’s beyond your wildest dreams.
Because you do.
No more waiting for permission to be loved.
No more needing to be “ready” or “healed” before that gets to happen for you.
Allowing yourself to be loved – to be swept off your feet and held in a relationship that’s more epic than any myth or legend – will be a GIFT to whoever is lucky enough to be your soulmate.
YOU ARE A GIFT.
It’s about damn time you fully embraced it.
I can’t promise it won’t be without facing your shadows, but babe, it’s worth it.